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"A family located in North London is looking for an exceptional and experienced tutor to guide their youngest child on his initial journey to becoming an British gentleman."

Upon seeing this listing, you might naturally overlook the term "first-steps" as simple a turn of phrase.

Yet, it might be the crucial element of this unique position posting, as it aims to recruit a teacher for a infant.

Numerous of responses have now been submitted since the anonymous family advertised their call for the £180k-a-year tutor, who has to be "a uniquely qualified person".

In recent few weeks, the listing has attracted attention throughout the press, with numerous wondering why?

Innovative Idea

A tutoring expert, head and founder of an education consultancy, which is supporting the family in their search, explained that notwithstanding early doubt, he considered the concept "far sighted", and "progressive".

When he consulted the family, he noted they understood the unconventional nature of their request, and how young their son is.

Nevertheless, they clarified that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had postponed until their firstborn was five, and by that stage "cultural bias had by then taken hold".

But what does the family mean by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "all-encompassing", he answered. "How you eat, the manner you speak".

He explained the older sibling had absorbed "really subtle, body language" from the family, and had adopted their cultural ways. The family informed Adam they did not want history to recur with their infant.

The strategy: To bring in a British tutor, who needs to speak with Received Pronunciation, to guide the baby right from the beginning.

Subtle Influence

"A lot of the learning at the outset here is somewhat absorbed naturally," explained the expert.

It's through this osmosis that the family are hoping the child will acquire the British traits they wish to impart.

The consultant said the tutor must be someone who went to "the appropriate educational institutions – comparable categories of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The educator simply needs to be the suitable individual, they'll be performing things they don't even know they're doing, just naturally," he commented.

Money No Object

The family told him the selected educator should preferably also have familiarity of or passion in horse riding, winter sports, artistic pursuits and musical activities so as to inspire the child in a wide range of passions.

Furthermore though, he said the family wanted the tutor to sign up the child on a selection of classes so the child would be "pony-riding and picking up an tool by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's view, guiding their son develop into a "English gentleman" will lead to achievement and provide access.

"Considering the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's undoubtedly a social class indicator," he adds.

But, in spite of all this instruction in "English culture", might the child pick up so-called cultural influence from the international family he lives with regardless?

"Yes", replied the CEO. "The parents know this could fail, but they've simply adopted the attitude of, 'we should try and let's go as soon as we can', because the cost of it is not a concern," he said.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

Several in the education sector who express these reservations.

An education leader, head and founder of an educational organization, who supplies private tutors, stated that "the journey of becoming bicultural, or indeed, forming one's identity, is something that must be grown into, not manufactured."

He explained that he had emigrated from the Far East to the United Kingdom at the time of 7 years old, and had been raised experiencing and living two backgrounds. He continued to be educated at a prestigious UK institution.

"The concept that one individual can function as a living vessel of UK identity, a person who can in some way transplant the qualities of a English gentleman to a one-year-old child, strikes me as naive and unfeasible," he commented.

"Based on my background, engaging a quintessentially British tutor from infancy will not automatically produce the outcome they hope for.

"I never had such a tutor, and however I have been privileged enough to live several of the situations they desire for their son."

He stated: "The truth is, cultural identity can not be dictated from the external environment; it must be selected, and it must be internally driven."

Purchasing UK Culture

Of course, UK identity is something the CEO thinks can be taught – and sold.

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